"I believe that either you're hardwired to be a cuck or not, and if it's something you just want to try, it's likely you are just into it for the erotic fantasy; kind of like role-playing a scenario or something like that."
Venus
I'm back after a bit of a break from things and am happy to be writing again here. I lost someone close to me and it has taken a little while to get back on my feet again but I'm pretty much back to my usual self once again. Shit happens in life sometimes!
I've thought about a few things the past couple of months while away. One of them being how much I love hearing stories from cucks about that turning point when they first got cucked, or when they first found out that cuckolding was something that turned them on immensely and became a big part of their life. It's that moment in time that I love to hear them talk about.
I've noticed that a common theme is that they were cheated on by their girlfriend when they were younger and at first they didn't like it but then at some point the feelings of jealousy and insecurity mixed with feeling turned on by it and wanting more. From that point on it was something they struggled to understand why they liked it but there was no denying that they needed it in a relationship.
Most guys I've talked to have at that point in their life continued to date vanilla women and hoped that their girlfriend would cheat on them, or some guys were brave enough to outright ask them to. From what I've heard most vanilla women say no though.
For my first cuck it was a bit different. He told me that the first time he saw a wife being shared in porn, after that he was hooked on the idea of him being faithful and the woman being a total slut. He also struggled with trying to understand why he wanted that and why he liked that so much but it was definitely something in his life that he wanted and needed to be happy in a relationship.
It's interesting that for all of them it was an abrupt life changing event and not something that they gradually became interested in. I think that must be why I'm weary of guys who want to date me because they are just curious about cuckolding. I believe that either you're hardwired to be a cuck or not, and if it's something you just want to try, it's likely you are just into it for the erotic fantasy; kind of like role-playing a scenario or something like that.
How did you first know you were meant to be a cuck?
Venus xo
